
Thanks to all who have stopped by here throughout the year! It's been fun getting to know you all and either sharing political views or obsessing over Vincent D'Onofrio.
Here's hoping we have a great 2009!
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HAPPY NEW YEAR!!!
Can you believe that 2008 is almost over? In my case, good riddance...here's hoping for a wonderful 2009!
Now for the questions:
1) Who do you wish could find their inner spirit to become more comfortable in their life?
My daughter-in-law. Even though she and my stepson are about to be divorced, I still absolutely adore her and wish she could feel more settled in her life. Sometimes her family makes it difficult to do that, though.
2) You have to fight a duel tomorrow at dawn. You have been allowed to choose the weapons. What do you choose?
Some sort of fire arm as hand to hand combat wouldn't suit me. I think at 5'0" I would definitely be better off with a gun unless I was fighting a midget. And no, I'm just barely NOT a midget or dwarf. ;-)
3) What’s the best thing to inherit other than money?
For me it would be sentimental stuff. Old family photos, diaries, wedding kimonos, etc. I'd say real estate and in the long run it may be real estate once again but not right now. I have a friend who inherited property and it's been a bitch to keep up and the market sucks around here now so she can't sell.
4) Do you hope to run your own company some day?
No. I'm really not the type to want to be responsible for other people and owning a company implies that. If I were to be self-employed I'd rather do something that requires just me to do any work. Like be an author or photographer or artist, etc. The stress of owning a company would be something I don't think would make it worth it. I don't even like being management. Been there, done that and am much happier being in charge of just myself.
5) Show and Tell. What comes to mind first when you see this picture? Or, tell a story if it reminds you of one.








2) Among all the people you know, who would you like to have known when s/he was a child?
My husband so I could tell him how brilliant he really is and to not have that self-doubt instilled in him inadvertently by well-meaning parents who wanted him to be more like his brother when he wasn't.
3) If you wanted to meditate for a whole day, where would you do it?
If I lived in Hawaii I'd go to the beach - a local beach on a week day with no tourists and hardly anyone else around me. Or I'd go surfing. Being out on the waves is like being one with nature. I love the Pacific ocean. There's something very Zen about being out on the ocean, just you and the water, riding a wave in to shore.
4) What is your favorite thing to do in a city park?
Walk the dog - when I had one. Now I'd probably enjoy taking my granddaughters to play so I could sit and watch. LOL
5) Show and Tell. What comes to mind first when you see this picture? Or, tell a story if it reminds you of one.



1) What one quality of your mother’s would you most like to share?
Her self-control and will power when it comes to moderation in all things. Me, I obsess and I tend to have moments of excess. I have to really try hard to be moderate. If not I end up spending way too much time [fill in the blank with any activity I enjoy] and not enough time doing other things that I should be doing. If I don't pay attention, I end up eating half a pound of M & M's and then find myself being sick. It's happened before when I was single, living alone and could eat anything I wanted for dinner. Of course I haven't been single for over two decades so that kind of helps. Mom was great at being self-moderating. I'm more like my dad.
2) If you promised never to lie about anything ever again, in what area of your life would be it the hardest for you to keep the promise?
Probably the part where I call in sick and really just want to stay home because I'm sick of dealing with irritable people. I say that because today, it seems like every other person who walked into the newspaper office was pissed off and annoyed about something and over half of them were angry over stupid things and trying to nicely explain it was very frustrating when they kept being complete assholes.
3) If you found a fifty dollar bill in a vacant lot, what would you do with it?
I'd probably take it, run a found ad in the paper (three days free for found ads - free forever for employees) that read, "Cash found. Call [newspaper phone number] and let me know where and how much to claim." After three days if no one claims it or can claim it by providing the correct information, I'd buy pizza for my co-workers for lunch.
4) What good deed that you didn’t do when you had the opportunity do you wish you had done?
Spent more time with my grandmother in her last years when she was in a nursing home. My mother went to see her every weekend. I'd go with her pretty regularly but being a self-centered teenager, I really wanted to do other things and often went off with friends instead.
To this day I feel badly about it. That's why I went to visit my mother every day in the nursing home when she was there for three months for rehab from her broken hip. When I did take a Sunday off to spend time with the kids and grandchild - we had just one at the time - I felt horribly guilty. Every time someone told me how good I was I felt guilty because really, I was just making up for being horrible when I was teenager.5) Show and Tell. What comes to mind first when you see this picture? Or, tell a story if it reminds you of one.









Law & Order: Criminal Intent Season 8 Cast Jeff Goldblum, Julianne Nicholson, Eric Bogosian, Kathryn Erbe & Vincent D'Onofrio1) What is the most unbelievable thing you have ever witnessed?
This isn't as unbelievable as it was weird. I don't know if that qualifies as unbelievable or not.
One day when we were living in a smaller town here in the county, my stepson and I were driving home from Battle Creek. He was attending KCC and I was working there. We were headed home driving through the downtown area because I wanted to stop to pick up something at the market. We noticed there was an accident. A car was stopped and was sitting half on the sidewalk by a streetlight post, with the headlight pressed against it. But it looked like it had been hit on the driver's side front headlight while the side touching the light post was fine. We looked at it and wondered what the hell happened? There was no other car around so it must have been a hit and run but the position of the car on the sidewalk in relation to the light post was just odd.
The police hadn't arrived yet so some good Samaritan pedestrians were helping out. One guy was directing traffic and he had no arms - just stumps. Other people (who had arms) were standing in the middle of the street just talking. As we drove by my stepson started humming the Twilight Zone theme and I launched into a narrative: This is Marsha B. and her stepson, Jimmy, driving home through their home town...or so they think. They have just entered the Twilight Zone.
So we both laughed and kept driving. It was just plain weird. Welcome to our surreal life. LOL
2) If you could change your identity completely (money no object), what would the new you be like?
Hmm....I can't think of anyone else I'd rather be. Well, maybe Kathryn Erbe because she's so cute and apparently well grounded for being an actor. And of course she gets to work with Vincent D'Onofrio everyday. Yeah, now that's a great perk!
3) What would you do if you saw someone making fun of another person?
Probably - depending on the situation - say something that makes fun of the people teasing the other person and ask how they like it when someone says mean things about them. I've actually done that before.
4) If you could go back to the Garden of Eden and talk to Adam and Eve for five minutes, what would you say?
Thanks for eating the apple or I wouldn't be here and neither would the rest of the world.
5) Show and Tell. What comes to mind first when you see this picture? Or, tell a story if it reminds you of one.